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Why "OMG" Is Still Offensive ~ AND Is it Ever Necessary?
This blog is a throwback to several articles I posted in 2010
and 2013. When a message is right and supports our Christian
faith - can we post it too often? Don't we all need reminders
and guideposts along the way to help us stay on track?
My 2013 post on the TimesDaily Religion Forum resulted
from the atheist campaign of Richard Dawkins, leading atheist
evangelist, of putting anti-God posters on city buses in
England and, eventually I presume, in America. Some of my
atheist/agnostic Friends on the Religion Forum saw this
campaign as a revelation from their gods. So, I offered a
rebuttal in defense of the true God.
The photo below from that anti-God campaign is shown with its
instigator, Richard Dawkins. But, please notice, his sign
does not say "There Is NO God!" Instead, it says, "There's
PROBABLY No God." In other words, his own sign shows
that Richard Dawkins was not really convinced that God is not
real, even though he is seen to be THE Atheist Leader.
Hmmm?
And, in later years, in some of the "God vs No
God" debates where he has participated - he has even
acknowledged that God might really exist. Could that be the
Holy Spirit working? Could that be one of those tiny Gospel
seeds which has worked its way down into that fertile soil which is
within the soul of all people, even though in some it may be
hidden very deeply under layered years of non-belief?
In my 2013 blog titled "Why "OMG" Is Still Offensive - And
Is It Ever Necessary?" I wrote:
In a TimesDaily Religion Forum
discussion begun by an atheist Friend titled "What's Wrong With
Atheist Bus Ads?" -
she comments, "I'd
say there is nothing wrong with them, but what's your
opinion?"
And, she gives us the Wikipedia link for the article "Atheist Bus
Campaign." Another atheist Forum Friend responds, "OMG! I feel so
blonde. LOL, I missed that entirely. Hilarious!"
To this second atheist Friend, I replied:
"As a Forum Friend who believes strongly that we can debate,
and even disagree, without offending one another - please do
not use the name of my Lord and God as your exclamation
point. If you are going to use OMG (which virtually every
person knows means 'Oh,
my God!') - please let it be the beginning of a
serious prayer.
Otherwise, you are offending the God I worship, and you are
offending me and all Christian believers. I realize you are
not a believer; but we are - and, as a Forum Friend, I ask
that you begin your sentence in another way. I know that
you are intelligent and can honor this request."
She tells me, "Bill,
I will not have my speech censored due to your belief. I am
sorry that you took offense to it, but it was in no way
directed at you or what you believe in. I will not use it
to be purposely offensive, but if the mood hits me and I
feel an 'OMG' is appropriate, then you will see it again. I
am intelligent enough to see the difference in someone being
offensive for effect and someone just using a term or phrase
for emphasizes. I would hope you are also."
My Friend, I fail to see when the use of a phrase which is
considered offensive to many people - is appropriate. And, I
know that most folks, if they give it a wee bit of thought,
can find an alternate phrase to use which is just as effective
and not offensive to anyone.
I am not asking to censor your speech. I AM asking for mutual
respect. Even though you were not purposely trying to offend
me and other Christian believers - taking the name of our God,
in whom we do believe, in vain - is offensive to all of us.
And, as I said, I KNOW that you are an intelligent person and
can find other exclamations to use in lieu of that.
You tell me, "I
am intelligent enough to see the difference in someone being
offensive for effect and someone just using a term or phrase
for emphasizes. I would hope you are also."
I realize that you were not purposely trying to be offensive.
And, even among Christian believers, there are many who do not
realize that they are offending God when they write OMG in a
post, or use it in a conversation. Many folks, especially young Christians,
think they are just using a cute exclamation.
To be honest with you, I was not aware of the many ways we had been taking God's name in vain until about 20 years ago when our senior pastor, Pastor Sam Lacanienta, used a Sunday School class to explain it to us. I had often heard, and probably been guilty of doing it myself, the use of words like "Geez" - which is just a shortened form of Jesus - or "Gosh!" which is just a disguised form of God, i.e., "Oh, my gosh!" - as exclamation points.
But, since that Sunday, I have been very aware of the
different forms of taking God's name in vain. And, it
sincerely does bother me to hear others do it so blatantly,
even when it is not done purposely to offend another.
Because, at one time I was not aware of the offense - now,
when another person does it, I realize that they, too, may not
be aware that what they are saying is offensive to most
Christians. So, as a Christian Friend, I will point it out to
that person and let him/her know that I find it offensive. If
that person then continues to do it; I realize they are
intentionally trying to offend me.
As I said, even many Christians do not realize what they are
doing when they write or say this. That is why, last
September 2010, I posted this Note on my Facebook Notes page:
USING
"OMG" AND THE "F" WORD ON PUBLIC FORUMS: In the
past few weeks, my heart has been burdened. I am seeing a
proliferation of people, mostly young, but some not so
young, whom I know to be Christian and whom I know come from
good Christian families - flagrantly posting two very
offensive words/phrases on Facebook.
What are these words that I find so offensive? First, is
the initials "OMG" and the second is
the "F" word.
Why are these so offensive to me? Well, the "F" word is
self-explanatory. So, we will proceed to "OMG," a texting shorthand
for "Oh, my
God!" - which IS taking God's name in
vain. God takes His name and His glory very serious. That
is why He wrote in the Bible, "You shall not
take the name of the LORD your God in vain, . . ." (Exodus 20:7). Just
because it is abbreviated makes it no less offensive - to
God and to all Christian believers.
Creating slang versions of His name is the same, i.e.,
writing, or saying, "Geez" or"Jeezus" - is just as bad as
using "Oh,
Jesus!" as
an exclamation.
Most of the people I have seen writing
or saying this have a relatively good education - and I am
sure, if that person tries just a little, he/she can find a
more appropriate word or phrase to use in venting
frustration, to highlight a point, or to make an
exclamation.
What does surprise me the most is that 95% of the people I
have seen recently using these offensive words and phrases
on public forums - are female. No, this is not meant to be
a slam against our ladies. As Sgt. Joe Friday (old Dragnet
TV series) use to say, "Just
the facts, ma'am. Just the facts!"
When we, as Christian believers, post on public forums such
as Facebook - we are representing all Christian believers;
and we are representing our Lord.
We are told in 2 Corinthians 5:20, "Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ,
as though God were making an appeal through us; we beg you
on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God."
When I read this Scripture verse, I am reminded of a story
my good Friend and mentor, Pastor Sam Lacanienta, told us
many years ago. When Pastor Sam was a young pastor in the
Philippines, one Sunday a relative, who also was the
Philippine Ambassador to England, came to their worship
service. After the service, Pastor Sam asked him what it
meant to be an ambassador for his country. He told Pastor
Sam,"My main job as an ambassador to England - is to not
embarrass my nation while doing my job."
As Christian ambassadors for Christ, when we write on public
forums, and even in private discussions - we should be very
aware of not embarrassing our Lord.
For my young Friends, when you post such words on Facebook
and other networking channels - keep in mind that you are
representing, first, our Lord - then, yourself - and, very
importantly, you are representing YOUR FAMILY, your mom, your
dad, your siblings - all your family.
So, please, I know that you do not
purposely want to be offensive. And, I know you do not want
to offend God, nor do you want to embarrass your family or
yourself. Therefore, when you write on Facebook or other
networking channels - write your message as though you are
writing it to your mother. Write messages you
would not be ashamed to have your mother, father, and Lord
read. Write messages which will glorify our Lord.
And, to my non-believing Friends, while you may or may not
find these words offensive; keep in mind when you post on
any Forum or network channel - that those things ARE offensive to we
Christians. So, as a courtesy to us, please try to find
other words or phrases to use. For that, we thank you.
To my Religion Forum Friend, you can see that it is not just
you, nor is it just other Religion Forum Friends, who
sometimes make this faux
pas. Many Christians innocently make the same
mistake. This is why I will ask them and will ask all my
Religion Forum Friends: Please, if you are going to begin a
sentence with the words, "Oh,
my God" - make sure it is followed by a sincere
prayer. Then, we can all be blessed.
So, one might ask, "Bill,
why are you resurrecting an old article? You wrote it in
2010; so, why post it again?"
The reason is simple. As long as I see Friends, many whom I
know are Christian, some even in leadership positions -
writing posts on Facebook and other venues using "OMG" as an exclamation
point as though they were merely saying, "Check this out!" or "This should get
your attention!" -
I will keep posting such articles, over and over again.
God bless, have a wonderful, blessed day,
Bill
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